The Essentials of Effective Negotiation
A highly unique and practical programme specially designed to equip you with all the tools, strategies and techniques you need to become a confident and successful negotiator.
Course Overview
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This specialised and detailed course has been carefully structured to provide you with a complete practical understanding in the mechanics of the negotiation process. This results focused programme incorporates the extensive use of “real world” examples combined with a unique “negotiators toolkit”. Also including comprehensive questionnaires and checklists that ensure that this course provides you with the perfect synergy between theory and practical applications.
WHY IS THIS COURSE UNIQUE?
Unlike conventional negotiation programmes, this unique course focuses purely on equipping you with practical tools and applications, not just theories. The techniques you will learn throughout the course have been utilised and tested extensively in the “real world” and could quite simply mean the difference between the success or failure of your performance in a negotiation. Exclusive to this programme is the dynamic “Negotiator’s Toolkit” an essential collection of tools and resources that will prove invaluable when preparing your negotiation strategy. All the practical exercises featured within the course are designed to give you hands-on experience. They are introduced in logical stages so that as the course unfolds, a process of progressive learning takes place as each practice session builds upon the previous one.
THIS COURSE WILL ENABLE YOU TO LEARN:
- What type of negotiator you really are
- How to assess the other party’s interests and objectives
- Key techniques to establish who holds the position of power & influence
- To identify your needs and that of the other parties with the ‘Two Way Needs Analysis’
- How to position yourself so you have the upper hand in any given situation
- The strengths of non-verbal communication, using body language to your advantage.
- Strategies enabling you to conquer all team negotiation situations
WHO SHOULD ATTEND
This course is designed for professionals with limited experience of negotiation who would dramatically benefit from a highly comprehensive and detailed grounding in the subject. It is therefore appropriate for people of all levels including both senior and junior professionals who feel they need to improve these particular skills. It would also be particularly useful for sales people who are looking to enhance their practical skills in the field of business negotiating.
Booking Information
To have a customised version of this course delivered In-House please call Tom Gooderham on +44 (0)20 7017 7195.
This course will be held on the above listed dates in central London. For more information about venue please click here.
Programme Details
"At last a practical course that teaches you the "real" secrets of power negotiating".
INTRODUCTION TO NEGOTIATION
- What is negotiation?
- When is it appropriate to negotiate?
- Assessing your needs and their importance
- Assessing the needs and their importance of the other party
- The 5 possible negotiation positions from ‘lose/lose’ through to 'win/win'
GROUP EXERCISE: Discussing the pro’s and con’s of the above
IDENTIFYING YOUR PERSONAL NEGOTIATION STYLE AND THAT OF OTHERS
This session addresses the dynamics of the negotiation process and looks at the 5 key behavioural strategies that can take place during a negotiation.
- Personal profile audit – a 30-point questionnaire
- identify your preferred negotiation style
- learn how to assess when it will be appropriate to apply the other styles.
- Dealing with Conflict and difficult People
- understanding the conflict management matrix
- When to use the 5 behavioural styles during a negotiation
- What are the pro’s and con’s of each style
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: Personal Negotiation Style Audit
UNIQUE SEVEN STAGE MODEL FOR SUCCESFUL NEGOTIATION
The essential ‘P.E.S.P.A.K.E.’ Negotiation Model
1. PREPERATION AND PROFILING: THE 2 KEY ELEMENTS OF PRE-NEGOTIATION
Preparation:
- Timing of the negotiation
- Perception of power
- Developing an effective negotiation strategy
- Identifying your ‘top end’ and ‘bottom line’ parameters – your ‘minimax’ criteria
Profiling the other party:
- Their business needs – current and future
- The people involved – SWOT Analysis
- The individual:
- knowledge
- skills
- behaviour style
- decision maker or influence
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: Preparation and profiling the other party
2. ENVIRONMENT & ATMOSPHERE
Assessing the importance of where the negotiation takes place (environment) and the type of atmosphere we want to create.
- The pro’s and con’s of the environment
- ‘home’, ‘away’ or ‘neutral territory’
- the do’s and don’ts.
- Creating the right atmosphere to enable us to build rapport and set the scene for a productive outcome
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: What factors should we consider?
3. SHOPPING LIST & AGENDA
The crucial stage of setting and agreeing the agenda – the ‘shopping list’ to be negotiated.
- Key techniques to ensure that we understand the other party’s needs
- Dealing professionally with ‘early demands’ from the other party
- Skilful ways of identifying any ‘hidden agenda’s’ that the other party may have.
- The importance of using control skills, for example, summarising, to agree mutual goals and avoid misunderstandings
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: Pairs practice
4. PROPOSE & TRADE
Moving into the act of negotiation – the main body.
- The language of negotiation – the do’s and don’ts
- Using the language of the expert negotiators - ‘conditional language’
- The impact of negative language
- Interpreting the other party’s statements – ‘the meaning behind the words’
- How to start the ‘trading’ process
- The art of trading concessions and following the golden rule – ‘ Never give – always trade’
- How to receive proposals from the other party
- How to state your position using the 4 stage ‘A.S.P.A.’ Model
- Dealing with difficult requests in a controlled manner
- How to say ‘NO’ without appearing negative
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: Pairs and group practice
5. AGREE, SUMMARISE & CLOSE
The process of moving from trading to the final agreement stage.
- Dealing with outstanding issues and how they can be resolved
- Summarising agreements and obtaining commitment to proceed
- Using the ‘backtrack’ technique to avoid making assumptions and deadlock
- The importance of note taking and recording of agreements
- Closing techniques to enable the negotiation to move forward
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: Pairs and group practice
6. KEEPING TO COMMITMENTS, MAKING SURE IT ALL HAPPENS
Moving from negotiation to realisation
- Establishing what has to happen to ensure that all agreements are actioned
- Addressing the ‘Plan B’ effect: The ‘What if happens’ scenario – avoiding the common pitfalls
- Considering the implications of legal, contractual and ‘small print’ items
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: Addressing the above issues and their effects on the negotiation
7. EVALUATION & REVIEW
The importance of the post negotiation evaluation.
- What did I/we learn from the negotiation?
- How well did we perform?
- How well did the other party negotiate?
- How can we use the experience to develop our skills?
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: Personal evaluation
GETTING TO GRIPS WITH THE POWER OF BODY LANGUAGE
How body talk can have a profound effect the negotiation process
- How body language communicates more than you think
- Reading the body language of others
- Understanding and developing your own body language
- The keys to using non-verbal communication to understand and influence others during negotiation
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: Body Language Observation
THE ART OF TEAM NEGOTIATIONS
- Difference between 1 to 1 negotiation and team negotiations
- Individual roles within the team
- Ensuring each team member has the essential negotiating attributes
- How to use the individual attributes to your advantage
- Strategies, techniques and tactics within the team negotiation process
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: Using the ‘checklist’ to select your ideal team
HOW TO SUCCESSFULLY OVERCOME NEGOTIATION PLOYS
Understanding the ploys used by the expert negotiators to give them the ‘ upper hand’.
- Identify the common professional ‘ploys’
- How to pre-empt them and build them into your strategy
- How to deal with them effectively
- How to ensure they do not affect the outcome
PRACTICAL EXERCISE: Practising dealing with ploys
ACTION PLAN: Develop a personal action plan to use when you go back to the workplace
Course Leader
John Alexander
During the past 28 years John Alexander’s career has been in sales and management where he has held senior positions within blue chip organisations in a number of industry sectors both within the UK and the Middle East. John brings a wealth of experience to the training environment. He has worked with people from board level to ‘front line’ level across a broad range of organisations within the private and public sector. He uses this experience to turn skills theory into real business applications that work. John is a Master Practitioner of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and is a Member of the Association for NLP. He is also a Member of the Association for Management Education and Development (AMED).

